Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Hello!


Hi from Miss Matney! Here she is on her lion. He is one of her most favorite toys.

We've been having fun here at the Heald house and M is growing like a weed. I have given up on her being able to wear any of her 12 month warm clothes and have moved her into the 18 month spring clothes even though it is 30 something degrees. Her belly and thigh region is just a little chunky! I just add tights and a sweater and off we go! Nice, huh?

Sunday night we had a Superbowl Party here with friends and as Matney was passed around I know I saw her eat cheese sticks, chicken wings, chicken fingers and spinach dip. Who knows what else she had...probably an entire piece of pizza when I wasn't looking! Yesterday at playgroup she enjoyed veggie lasagna off my plate. I think it was her first taste of broccoli and she seemed to like it. I assure you she got NO broccoli when she was in my belly. I'd rather eat snails! Eating "big people food" is a new thing in the couple days. She used to just spit it out but since this weekend she seems more willing to try things.

I can't keep up with all that she is learning. When we read her books she can find the cat, duck, frog, etc and loves the praise she gets when she points to what we ask. Her favorite word right now is DUCK. Everything is duck and it is super cute. She also learned "kisses" over the weekend. When we say "Matney kisses" she presses her little lips together and leans in to give you a smooch. I have been the lucky recipient of a couple open mouth, drool kisses and, as sweet as it is, they are pretty nasty!

Jared and I are doing well...because I know that you care! J is really busy with a couple things at work. We're working on keeping M up a little later at night. This way he's been able to still see her when he gets home. She is still sleeping through the night. WHOO HOO! I don't know what finally changed but she did it one night a couple weeks ago and we're still going. I may end up in there once a night but she is easy to get back asleep so I don't mind at all. New baby girl Heald is doing fine also. She still doesn't have a name though. She is growing, my belly is growing a lot all of a sudden! I saw the dr. and at 24 weeks still haven't gained any weight which is hard to believe if you've seen my tummy. I think it is all the crawling I do chasing M around! He said he wasn't concerned at all and that the baby sounds great. May 23rd will be here before we know it!


Thursday, January 29, 2009

Saving Daddy Money

Earlier this week Matney took a Valpack (envelope of coupons mailed each month) and tore it apart! She was having so much fun that I let her make a mess. Despite what it looks like she was good about not eating them. Or, at least taking them out of her mouth when I said, "Matney, no mam!". Coupons are probably the easiest thing that I will ever have to clean up! I think she was just trying to help save Daddy some money with a new sister coming.






Friday, January 23, 2009

Daddy's Sleepy Girl!

Who ever thought they would see the word "sleepy" in a post about Matney??? NOT ME! I am so so so happy to report that after 10 months, 2 weeks and 4 days MATNEY SLEPT THROUGH THE ENTIRE NIGHT...twice! For the past 2 nights M has gone down around 7:30pm and slept until 7:30am without a bottle. Normally, best case, she makes it to about 5:30am before she drinks a bottle and then goes back down until until 7:30. Now we've made it the full 12 hours without needing to eat. She woke up and cried this morning at 5am but I left her. After a couple minutes she turned on her rainforest toy and went right back to sleep. Ah...how wonderful. Once I am up with her around 5 it is so hard for me ever to back to sleep that I normally just get up. I would LOVE it if this "sticks" and I could sleep an extra hour, get up around 6 and have an hour to myself. We'll see!
On the nap front...not so good. Yesterday, after her first night of sleep she was back to two 20 minute naps. It felt like a very long day!

Also, the crawler is getting fast! She is still "swimming" forward but she is faster everyday and trying to make it onto her knees. I had a dream last night that we lost her in a mall. Someone put her down, used to her not moving, and when I went to take her she was gone. They pointed at their feet and seemed shocked she wasn't there. I was frantic to find her. The anxieties being a parent are just great!

She also figured out in the past couple days how to get to a sitting position after being on her belly. Last night Jared was working late so she and I were on our own for bedtime. She played in the tub, we rocked and read like usual. When I laid her in the crib she just kept sitting up, holding Dog to her head and crying. It was so sad! I laid her back down several times but she kept sitting back up. I finally left and watched through a crack in the door. Seeing my sweet baby girl cuddling that puppy and crying sitting in the middle of the crib was just pitiful!

These are pictures from the weekend. She'd just gotten up from a nap. If you say, "Matney love ______" she turns into a cuddle bug! So sweet!!!



Sunday, January 18, 2009

Matney's new tricks



Check this big girl out! Matney has started holding onto her own bottle. FINALLY! She won't take it if she's sitting up but if she's rolling around on the ground and I hand it to her she'll grab it from me. I think when she is on her back and she doesn't have to tip it up it is easier and she is willing to try harder. What freedom I am gaining!

Also, and I am so scared to type this because it will end tomorrow, she is NAPPING!!! I put her rainforest music toy back in her crib and made sure she understood how to turn it off and on by herself. I was trying to teach her that when she wakes up she doesn't have to start screaming the minute her eyes open. Then last Wednesday we had lunch with a friend and she wouldn't take her morning nap before we left. By the time we got home she was SO TIRED and went right to sleep...and woke up just like usual after 20 minutes. I knew that wasn't enough so I left her crying. She eventually turned on the music and after a couple minutes it stopped and I heard NOTHING. I eeked up the stairs and peeked in her room and she was back asleep. Ever since then when she wakes up for her normal 20 minute routine I've just left her and today she fussed for a minute and went right back to sleep for another 20 minutes. AMAZING! Did I mention I was gaining some freedom?!?!? She still wakes up for a bottle around 4:30am but since Christmas we sleep through the night and are starting to nap. I may be a new woman in another couple weeks!

Our other big M news is that she is finally starting to crawl. She will get up on all fours and go backwards. Then she gets really mad as she gets further and further away from what she was going after! Yesterday she started "swimming" forward. She's still on her belly but will push and pull with her knees and elbows until she makes it somewhere. So far I think its only been 12" away but that is progress! And means my freedom may be heading back out the door because I will be chasing her for the next 18 years!

Jared and I go to bed every night realizing how blessed we are to have a healthy, thriving little girl. We are so in love with her!

Finally...a post!

We have been crazy busy here at the Heald house and we are having LOTS of fun. Matney is more and more exciting to be around every day!

Jared got a gift card to Bass Pro Shop about a year ago that he never finished spending. We went there to see if he could find anything ...that was where M saw Santa (read: SCREAMED at Santa!). Before we left he bought Matney a cute hat since she didn't have one that would fit her head. It finally got cold enough last week to have her wear it...is she not the CUTEST?!?!?




We came down off the "holiday high" and are gearing up for Matney's first birthday...and first birthday party. Only about a month until she is one. I CANNOT believe it! We do not want to do a crazy big party and are going to just have a couple friends and family over. That said, I can't find plates, etc that are "just right" and I have looked everywhere! I couldn't find invites that are cute enough so I'm going to make them. The cake is ordered, I just have to figure out what the rest of the party will look like so that we can tell the lady how to make the cake. We'll certainly take lots of pictures. I have no doubt that Matney will be eager to smash her fists into cake!

Last weekend I spent about 24 hours working on a scrapbook of M's first year. I started with 400+ pictures and am having to make myself limit which ones are used. She is just so cute! Some friends got together and we had a "scrapbook weekend". That is the ONLY way that I was able to get into it all. They are the real scrapbook deal and knew what they were doing so I brought what I had and they helped a ton. Without Matney around I was able to complete 10 pages and am very proud of myself. They won't ever make it in a professional book but they are good enough (especially when you start 10 months behind) to be cute to me! I have been working hard this week and am trying to get caught up by her birthday. With another one coming sooner than later the pressure is on!

Jared is doing well. Still really liking where he works and enjoying his days. He even has been making a big effort to come home earlier during the week so that he can see M before bed. Sometimes he is only here for 30 minutes before she goes down but SHE (and I) LOVES when he walks in the door. So sweet!

That is about all we've been up to for the past couple weeks. I promise to try and be a better blogger!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Matney is going....

In May 2008 Matney is going to HAVE A LITTLE SISTER! We found out Monday that the next baby Heald will also be wearing dresses and bows because its a GIRL!!! So far she looks perfect and healthy! What awesome news! We are halfway through this pregnancy and are finally relaxing and enjoying things...not to mention that I am not barfing much anymore. So, get ready for the estrogen to flow in this house because there will be 3 girls and Jared. HA! We are so excited! No names yet but when we come up with one we'll let you know. In the meantime I'm hard at work on another nursery!

In other news Matney is changing everyday. At the end of last week she learned "arms up" and is very proud to stick her arms straight up (and expects you to cheer and clap). Also, in the past two days, she gotten "nose" and "toes". When I ask her "where's mommy's nose" she puts a slobbery finger on my nose. If I ask her where her toes are she grabs them (again expecting cheers and claps). What a big girl! It is amazing how much she is learning and expressing. We are so in love!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Packing for a bittersweet trip to WR...sniff, sniff

This is an article in the Middle GA paper today. My dad forwarded it this morning ago and I have had several calls/emails already as people have seen it themselves. Evelyn's was such a BIG part in my life growing up and it is sad to see that end, even though it hasn't been the same as I remember in a long time. Change is hard sometimes, isn't it?

I remember my mom picking me up from elementary school and heading to the store. We'd go in through the back door (where on the outside wall there is still a patch of tar that I promise looks like a witch) and I'd run to Grandmama's office. Back in those days she ALWAYS had a blouse that had a bow tied around the neck and I LOVED to untie it even though I am sure it was horribly annoying! Mom would give me a dollar or two and I'd run across to Eckard (at that time a pharmacy and small diner in the mall) and get a snack. I'd bring it back and go see Arlette, our seamstress, and put all her threads in color order. I'd find Loretta who would let me sit on the checkout countertop and talk to the customers...unless Grandmama was coming. Sitting on the counter was NOT allowed and Loretta would toss me under until Grandmama had passed. I would talk to each lady checking out and feel like such a big girl!

On the really lucky days I might get to turn the crank on the bow maker and help make bows for packages. Or, I could sneak into the glass doored wedding dress section and pick up the fallen sequins and beads. Those were treasures and I saved them each day. There was a room behind the wedding dress section that seemed dark and I hated having to go back there, it scared me! Loretta always in charge of the windows and every once in a while I could sneak in while she was changing manequins and watch people walking in the mall from the window. Plus, there were rocks made of foam and I thought they were so neat (remember I was little!).

I knew the sound of Grandmama's heals when she walked across the brick in the middle of the store. I knew not to mess with the jewelry in the counter or I'd be in trouble! When a bride tried on wedding dresses I would sit quietly on the big round couch and watch her turn in circles in front of the mirror. I think I thought they were princesses! I drove Grandmama crazy when I'd come in the door 2 days before Prom or some other formal needing a dress. I'd had months to pick exactly what I wanted off the racks and I would NEVER try on anything until a couple days before. I don't know why!

I knew so many of the ladies who shopped in the store and was so LOVED on by all that worked there. It was a wonderful way to grow up surrounded by women that grew with me. That is why it has been so neat to take Matney to the store and hang out with Grandmama and Loretta. They watch her roll around and tell all sorts of stories about me...some of them I am glad Matney isn't old enough to hear!

Jared and I are heading down to help close things up (he's a keeper for his man strength alone!) and it will be bittersweet. A trip to WR will never feel ths same without the opportunity to swing by the store to see Loretta. She and Sandy have both been such loyal friends to our family. I know that Grandmama will find something to do with her time but I can only imagine how hard it will be to turn that key a final time. What a legacy she has left in WR and what a legacy Evelyn's left in my in life.

Longtime Warner Robins women’s-wear store Evelyn’s closing

By Chuck Thompson

WARNER ROBINS — Come Wednesday evening, Fanise Strickland will lock the doors and turn out the lights on an institution.

After more than 60 years as the place to go for prom, wedding and other formal women’s wear, Evelyn’s, believed to be the second-oldest business in Warner Robins, is closing for good.

“The fact is I’ve been here 50 years,” said Strickland, owner of the venerable business. “Plus the economy is not looking any better, and my family says it is time I call it quits.

“I don’t know what I’ll do with myself, but that’s the plan.”

She chose the end of the year so she wouldn’t have the expense of restocking for spring.

“Now’s the time to be buying the spring line, so this seemed a good time to stop before getting into another new season,” Strickland said.



Posted on Tue, Dec. 30, 2008


Fanise Strickland, right, and Loretta Hall at Evelyn’s in Warner Robins. After more than 60 years, the store, owned by Strickland, will close its doors. (I couldn't get the pic from the paper to load onto this page so here is one with Matney. They are cuter with her anyway!)

Evelyn’s debuted in 1947, and Strickland bought the business in 1959 soon after founder Jimmie Rosenburg died.

“I was his bookkeeper. I had come to work for him in 1953,” she said. “When he got sick, he told me I had to run the place until he got back. But he didn’t make it back.”

A native of Lake Butler, Fla., Rosenburg was one of Warner Robins’ leading businessmen in the community’s early years, moving to town from Macon following World War II. Besides owning and operating Evelyn’s, named for his first wife, he was a real estate developer and one of the founders of the Bank of Warner Robins. He was chairman of the Houston County Board of Tax Assessors and the Warner Robins Housing Authority, and he served on a number of other civic boards.

“His first store was way down on Watson Boulevard, not far from the base,” Strickland said. “Then he moved it to Williams Plaza when it opened, and that’s where I started working for him. That was when all the roads around it were still dirt, and Centerville was just a little speck on the map. Now it is all grown together.”

Later the store would move to Houston Mall when it opened, then to The Galleria in Centerville, back to Houston Mall, and finally, two years ago, to Shaheen Plaza on Houston Lake Road.

But through all the years and moves, Evelyn’s was the place to shop for classy women’s wear, prom dresses, wedding gowns and other party attire.

“For years and years, we dressed nearly all of the officers’ wives for special occasions at the base,” Strickland said. “And you always had to be sure you didn’t sell the same gown to more than one woman. People aren’t as worried about that now, but back then it would have been terrible to go to a party or banquet wearing the same dress as someone else.”

Loretta Hall, who has worked for Strickland since 1976, said Evelyn’s has dressed generations of Houston County’s most influential women. Sandy Hartman has worked at the store a dozen years.

“Mothers, daughters, granddaughters — we’ve had so much fun watching all these families grow up,” Hall said. “We’ve thoroughly enjoyed working here.”

LaVerne Norris, an Evelyn’s customer since Rosenburg owned the store, said she’s sad to see it close.

“It was simply the only place you bought your clothes,” Norris said. “If I had back all the money I’ve spent there, I could make a good down payment on a Ferrari. But I don’t regret a dime. They had everything you needed and it was good quality, and the people were so friendly. Jimmie Rosenburg was the nicest person and did so much for Warner Robins in its early years, and Mrs. Strickland has carried on the same way. I’m absolutely sad she’s closing, but she owes it to herself to retire.”

And business has decreased in the last decade or so. As Warner Robins has grown, new people coming in haven’t been as loyal to local merchants, the women said. Now women think nothing of driving to Macon or Atlanta to shop or even flying to New York once or twice a year.

“Once, everyone in the area came to us for prom dresses and party gowns, but not so much anymore,” Strickland said. “We would have big fashion shows, and we had as many as 13 people working for us at one time, sales staff and alteration ladies. Now we’re down to three.

“People don’t dress up as much as they used to, and they have more places to shop. And this economy doesn’t look like it will pick up anytime soon.”

Still, Strickland says she would probably try to keep the business open if not for her family.

“My kids (a son and three daughters, plus 10 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren) have been fussing at me for a while about quitting. They want me to close up and retire. I’ll be 86 in March, so they think it is time. But I don’t know what I’ll do with myself. I love working, and this has never really seemed like work.

“We haven’t just been a dress shop devoted to selling,” Strickland added. “Evelyn’s has been a place for friends to come and visit and talk with each other while they look for clothes. Any occasion in town found everyone at Evelyn’s busy finding that special gown. We were a part of what was happening in the community, and that’s what we loved and what I’ll miss most.”

Monday, December 29, 2008

Christmas Miracle! Matney updates

Until I have more Christmas pictures I am stuck so I thought I'd add her professional pics while Blogger seems to be working and give a quick Matney update. The biggest, most exciting news EVER is that, beginning Christmas Eve Matney started sleeping though the night. We have no idea what changed...her room is the same, her pj's and bedtime routine are the same, her food is the same, etc. But, for the first time EVER, she has gone to bed around 7pm and slept without me having to go into her room until about 5am when she wakes up wanting a bottle. She goes back to sleep for an hour or two after her bottle. AND, if that wasn't good enough, she is napping in her crib...sometimes for longer than 20 minutes. Can you BELIEVE IT?!?!?! I can not! 10 months later...I am so excited!

If we say "Matney, wave bye-bye to...", she will wave. If we say clappy, clappy, she claps. Shakey, shakey makes her shake her arms/hands. Such a big girl! She will say mamamam and dadada but I don't think she really gets it, or maybe she gets it but she can't always get it out when she wants to. Lots of the time Jared is mamama too.

She still isn't crawling but is finally starting to show some interest in getting around. Her rolling across the floor gets her where she wants to go so most of the time she will rock on her hands and knees and then flop to her belly and roll to what she wants.

She LOVES sweet peas (whole peas warmed in the microwave) and Cheerios. LOVES THEM! She is getting really good with her sippy cup and likes to drink water. She has 8 teeth now, 4 on the top and 4 on the bottom. She is growing up so quickly!

And right now she wants to eat so I have to run. Hope this gets you caught up a little more!





Christmas Morning

Christmas morning Matney woke us up and we headed downstairs around 7am. I don't think she knew what to do with all the gifts and toys on the floor. She was excited! We opened all our gifts and had a lazy morning. My dad got here about 11am and we had another round of present time before another yummy lunch. Those elastic waist pj's were great. The rule about Christmas pj's is that you stay in them Christmas Day...how wonderful!

Things sure change when you have a baby, including Christmas. Jared and I expected to not have much for us anymore but we were TOTALLY SPOILED!! For a year that has been pretty much all about Matney it was super fun to realize we had piles to open of our own...just being honest!

It was also lots of fun to watch Matney with all her her new things. Some of them were my favorites as a kid (like the Cabbage Patch doll from the Matney's and the huge Strawberry Shortcake from Kathy). I can't wait to see what she will like as she grows up!

We lost our camera about halfway through the day (buried under piles of stuff) so I'll have to get pictures from Mom. She had some cute ones of Miss M later in the day. My dad and Josh left around 4pm and we took Matney for a walk in the park since it was such a pretty day.


All of Matney's loot. Jared and I actually one bought one thing in that pile and the rest was from Grandparents, Great Grandparents, friends of the family and the rest of Jared's extended TX family. The UPS man stopped at our house a lot!


As soon as Matney sees my dad all she cares about is his IPhone. He downloaded a baby animal program and when Matney touches the screen she can make it make the animal noise. She LOVES it!


Josh trying to put together a toy.


Jared putting together a toy. Payback for Christmas Eve!


Matney and Daddy with the pink soccer ball Matney got him.


Matney playing with her music catepillar from Aunt Vickie in TX.


Matney eating a present



Matney surrounded by all her gifts!

Christmas...in many posts

I am a horrible blogger! So sorry for the lack of posts, it has been crazy and I just haven't done it. No good excuse! The week of Christmas was a whirlwind here at the Heald house so I'll try and run through it quickly...so that you can get on to viewing pictures of Matney.

Sat the 20th Matney woke up in the middle of the night with a fever. I knew she felt hot when I picked her up to feed her (around 4am) and when we took her temp in the AM it was 101.5. She had no other symptoms of illness so we just kept her in all day and watched her. Poor baby! My mom and her friend Kathy had driven up to babysit so that Jared and I could go to my friend Lisette's wedding Sat night. It was beautiful and fun to be at her wedding when she was at ours just a few years ago! Matney stayed on Tylenol for a couple days and then she was fine. We never knew what bug she was fighting. Strange.

When she still seemed ok on Sunday I threw in the car late afternoon and headed for WR. We had some friends in town that haven't all been in Middle GA at the same time in years. Mom, Matney, Sue, Donna and her extended family had a great time catching up and the girls enjoyed a nice lunch and time shopping.

Then M and I loaded it all back up and came back to Atl just in time to get Christmas all ready at our house. Christmas Eve morning we went to Jared's parents. It wasn't 10 minutes after we left the house that Matney pooped her pants...and her cute pink dress. We pulled over and changed her (and her clothes) and kept going. There is never a dull moment here! We enjoyed a yummy lunch with his parents, sister and her husband, and all received great gifts. Matney's favorite thing was pulling the tissue paper out of bags! In the rush to get out of the house we didn't take our camera so I'll have to get pics from his family later.

We left Jared's family in time to get back to our part of town for the Christmas Eve service at church. It was a candlelight service and helped get us in the Christmas mood (which was hard when it has been 65-70 degrees outside!). My mom and brother drove up that night and helped Matney make Christmas cookies for Santa. Jared apparently didn't understand who Santa is because I looked up and he was eating the biggest one off Santa's plate! We will work on that before next year.

It is tradition in my family to open one present on Christmas Eve. I don't know how old my brother and I were before we realized that it is always Christmas pj's! This year we all sat an opened our gift. Then the boys went to a late movie while mom and I got stuck at home putting together Matney's toys for under the tree. I am not sure how that happened!

I think that goes through the last week and these pictures. I am geting the Christmas Day pics off the camera now so more to come!



All our stockings


"Um, Mom. I know you like bows but I think this is a little too big!"


Jared's version of Christmas pj's. He wore this nice outfit to the movies!


Jared, opening his pj's, wanted to be like Matney and wear his bow too.


I have no idea why she was naked. But she is cute! Love that belly!!!


The tree after Santa came and dropped off put together toys!



Matney's Christmas pj's


random tree again before Santa and before the room got cleaned


Jared with Santa's stolen cookie


Matney's cookies for Santa